The job was home based and this is where the problems started to arise.
Looking back now, I was residing in London (my partner at the time was still in the RAF in Northwood) and I was away from family and friends. My father had already been diagnosed with cancer and had been given five years maximum to live, I was playing part time house husband too, looking after our 1-year old daughter and before I knew it, isolation and depression had crept in.